T om Gagliano holds an M.A. in Social Work and a B.A. in Business. He has a background in business and has used that knowledge to create a therapy practice that focuses on family dynamic issues.  He specializes in working with parents relating to childhood messages and how one’s experience shapes their world view.  He discusses challenging issues from his vast professional background while interweaving his own experiences to crystallize concepts.

He is a sought-after expert and speaker and has appeared on many television and radio shows including: The Jenny McCarthy Show, Dr. Oz, T.D. Jakes, and Sirius XM radio.  He also hosts weekly Instagram shows, @theproblemwasme, and has produced several educational podcasts that can be found on iTunes. Mr. Gagliano is the bestselling author of “The Problem Was Me” with Dr. Abraham Twerski.  He has provided training at many universities and community-based organizations regarding parenting and family dynamic problems. When he is not training, speaking, or writing, he provides family-focused individual and couple’s therapy.   In all of his professional endeavors, his focus is to give back what he has learned to assist others in finding balance and create a healthier self.


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