About 20 years ago, Tom started to spend less time in the business world and more time helping those who suffered, as he did, from negative childhood messages. “I believe that experience and expertise go hand in hand”. He is a regular on many Sirius XM radio networks and on the TBN television network, and has appeared on other networks as well and the best selling author of “The Problem Was Me”, with Dr. Abraham Twerski, and “Don’t Put Your Crap in Your Kid’s Diaper”, the clean up cost can last a lifetime. His expertise is teaching a methodology which has helped many individuals, couples and parents build healthier relationships with themselves and each other.” Today he facilitates groups for recovering addicts and consults as a parenting and relationship expert.

Tom is a graduate of Seton Hall University and has a Bachelor’s Degree in Marketing. Tom also has a Master’s Degree in Social Work from Rutgers University .

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